When my husband and I really wanted children but we've just found out that I can't have them?

Question

I feel so guilty, as though I'm letting my husband down.

Answer 1

But we still have each other and we will get through this.

Answer 2

But there may be IVF options to help us, or we could adopt a child.

Answer 3

But I know other couples who have happy, fulfilling lives, even though they don't have children.

Answer 4

But we can travel and do other things that we wouldn't be able to do if we had children.

Answer 5

But having kids can be a lot of hard work and heartache - it isn't always the kind of fairytale that people make out.

Answer 6

But I know that my husband doesn't blame me - he knows that it's not my fault and he still loves me.