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asked by (170 points) 1 1 6

I can not react truly at that moment when someone talks to me a bit threatening politely or seriously.

I react not like myself, i react like i'm tryin to escape that moment and situation. 

When someone talks to me sarcastic, i pretend that i am not getting angry but i do and i'm getting sad. I think the right word is "evade". I'm evading.

Am i a looser?

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answered by (200 points) 2

If you reacted like yourself in such situation, what would you do?

commented by (170 points) 1 1 6
i would be really rude and bully and swear, because of that someone trying to be smart ass and giving advise to me with his little mind.
Yes i would be really angry as it appears in the comment.
commented by (200 points) 2
Ok. And if you were your perfect self, how would you like to react?
commented by (170 points) 1 1 6
i would answer extremely gentle and sarcastic way without allowing him to begin fight with me. i would like to make him regret to speak like that with a really gently and politely behaviour like a prophet. that's what my perfect self wants.
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answered by (160 points) 1
maybe you do that just because you dont want to hurn others or you want to protect youself,it doesn't means you are a loser
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answered by (1.2k points) 2 4 11
Maybe you have social anxiety? What you describe sounds like Social Anxiety to me. Take a look at the symptoms over here:

Although many people suffering from S.A. get to know by their gut feel when they go through a list of symptoms like this. If you suspect that you have this disorder it might be a good idea to get a professional evaluation for it as well via either a therapist or online tests.
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